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Gary Klatsky, Professor of Psychology, passed away on April 3, 2009, after a
courageous battle with brain cancer. We are deeply saddened by the loss of our
colleague, Gary, a dedicated teacher, mentor, and advisor to his students.

"Today I consider myself the luckiest man on the face of the earth." -Lou
Gehrig, July 4, 1939
After being diagnosed with a glioblastoma, a particularly nasty type of brain
cancer, Gary Klatsky (a devoted Yankee fan for over 50 years) often cited
Gehrig's "luckiest man" speech to his family, friends, and colleagues. Despite
the poor prognosis, Gary considered himself the "luckiest man on the face of
the earth," in part because of his professional successes, but primarily
because of his loving and devoted family--especially his beloved wife, Rhonda
Mandel, his adored children, Danielle and Alex, and his dog, Neelix. He was
also blessed with particularly close relationships with his sisters, Susan,
Myra, and Bonnie, as well as his longtime best friends, Dave, Stu, and
Sherman.
- Memorial Service program, Thursday, April 30, 2009

"Gary loved baseball. Initially a Brooklyn Dodgers fan, he transferred his
baseball affections to the New York Yankees when the Dodgers "abandoned" him
and moved to Los Angeles. When Gary's sister, Susan, and his wife, Rhonda, were
talking with him about the eligibility criteria for the Gary Klatsky
Scholarship, they asked if he wanted the scholarship limited to Yankees fans.
He responded no, that would be too restrictive, but then he added that the
recipient could NOT be a Red Sox fan. I'm a Red Sox fan, and over the years
Gary and I had many "spirited" conversations about baseball and our respective
favorite teams. (I've been assured that Gary was joking when he mentioned the
Red Sox exclusion from scholarship eligibility).
One of my earliest memories of Gary dates back to his first semester at
Oswego. It was warm at the beginning of the semester, and he was wearing a
white, short-sleeved button-down shirt with off-white chinos. I told him that
he looked like the "Good Humor" man, and I ribbed him about it all day. I kept
expecting payback, but it never came. Instead, I found a note from Gary in my
faculty mailbox at the end of the day, saying only: "this could have been a
melted ice cream bar." That was Gary— a class act with a sense of humor who
took the high road; too kind to retaliate. I'll always remember Gary's kindness
and generosity.
Everyone who knew Gary knew that he loved his family beyond words and beyond
measure. He certainly treasured his relationships with his other family members
and close friends, but I think that Gary would say that the most important
roles in his life were husband and father. It was primarily because of Rhonda,
Danielle, and Alex that Gary often said that he considered himself the
"luckiest man on the face of the planet." (Yet more evidence of Gary's Yankee
fanaticism: quoting Lou Gehrig's "Luckiest Man" speech, delivered at Yankee
Stadium July 4, 1939.)
Gary was an exceptional colleague and friend. He can never be replaced. I
miss him every day."
- Pam Brand
For those who would like to make a gift In his memory, donations may be made
to the Gary J. Klatsky Scholarship. Checks may be sent to the Oswego College
Foundation,
Dr. Gary J. Klatsky Scholarship, 219 Sheldon Hall, SUNY Oswego, Oswego, NY
13126.
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