Please read this first:

We (somewhat) apologize for the username/password inconvenience. However, we’re sharing private information. Please bear with us and refrain from sharing the username and password with others unless and until you have our approval.

Also, requiring a password means that the site can include convenient email links without concern for trollers that lead to spam.

For Scott's family: The username is my beloved granny's "nickname." The password is my beloved grandma's first name (actually, perhaps its her middle name?). Oh yes: lower case letters only.

Happy Valentine's Day

Love, Scott & Mary Ann